So I feel better after that last post on whether it would be more attractive if we were perfect people. Because of course I’d be perfect if I were a good cook. I see a pattern actually. Most of the good cooks say they aren’t very good housekeepers. I’m an awesome housekeeper and an awful cook. Great. Mutually exclusive. Thanks so much for your time and replies folks – it’s the end of the day so this is my answer –
Could I love him more?
Who said I love him to begin with? :p
Would we be happier? I don’t think so. In his line of work more money means longer hours and I’ve realised I’m too much of a clingy wife to allow that. The trade off wouldn’t suit me. More money would always be welcome. Less time with him? Not a chance.
Would he love me more if I were a better cook? I don’t think he could love me any more.
Would he be happier if I were a good cook? A resounding yes!!!
Although I must admit he dithered for five minutes over the answer.